Thursday, March 13, 2008

thursday thirteen: things I love and hate about being in school


Thirteen Things about SCHOOL


I am back in school after many years of being full time in the work force. i think if I ever had enough money to never work again I would go back to school full time and be a professional student. There are things I love and things I hate about being in school again. Here is my list for the week.

1. I love learning.
2. I love pens and pencils (especially) and paper and notebooks and erasers and .....
3. I hate working in groups. I hated this as an undergrad also, and as a grad student I hate it equally (or more if that is possible). I don't like that the work, or lack of work, of others affects my grade. I am not all about the grade (no matter what you may think) but if I decide to do a half assed job of a task then I should get a grade that reflects that. If I want a good grade and someone in my group is a half asser, then I will do more work to compensate. I don't think that is fair and therefore I HATE group work.
4. I love being lectured to. My spouse likes classes that are all touchy feely and where people exchange ideas and talk about things and challenge one another. I don't. Give me the facts. Let me write them down. I am paying for someone more intelligent with more knowledge to impart that knowledge to me and I don't want someones ideas or feelings about it to interfere with my gleaning of that knowledge.
5. I love to sit in the back row.
6. I hate people who distract me, or the teacher, or get off topic to hear themselves speak. Just because I may APPEAR as though I am not paying attention (drawing, texting, searching the web in wireless internet) does NOT mean I am not paying attention and it is NOT an invitation to bother me!
7. I love textbooks.
8. I love homework (even though I never do it until the last minute, no matter how hard I try).
9. I love teachers - MOSTLY - unless they are boring, self-aggrandizing, or touchy feely.
10. I love syllabi, I love the details, I refer to my syllabi often.
11. Referring to #3 where I said I wasn't all about the grade. I do like grades, and I like to get good grades, but the grade isn't the be all and end all for me. I don't HAVE to get "a's" in every class and on every assignment, but I like being graded. I LOVE to get comments back on something I have worked on in order for me to know where I stand and how to make improvements if necessary. I used to get worked up if I feared I wasn't going to achieve perfection. I am much more relaxed about it now. I like to get my report card.
12. I love the comraderie. In the group I am in right now we are a cohort. The same group of people will be in every class until the end of the three yer course. There are personalities of course that do not get along, but there are some great people in the class and I am fortunate enough to have made some good friends.
13. Class presentations. I don't like to watch other presentations and I don't like being asked to participate in other group presentations. I will do it, but I don't like it. (Especially when the presentation does not follow the criteria given in the syllabi!) I don't have any problem at all giving a presentation though - and I follow what has been asked for!


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Tuesday, March 11, 2008

Ten things I am looking forward to in the spring

1. PRUNING!
2. My mom coming to visit us from South Africa.
3. Sunlight - this is significant because we live so far north there IS a difference in the amount of sunlight we recieve each day.
4. Cleaning up the yard of the new house.
5. Getting a tax refund (fingers crossed)and fixing the bathroom.
6. Spending time outside with the family.
7. Budding trees (pussy willows).
8. Opening up the quonset which was frozen shut then ploughed in behind a mound of snow.
9. No more dripping
10. Shedding my WINTER COAT!

Monday, March 10, 2008

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63%

unconscious mutterings

Homicide :: investigation
Divisive :: fighting
Flash :: Gordon
Steaming :: hot cocoa
Crunch :: Captain
Look out! :: heads up
Anticipating :: Butterflies
Slim :: Shady
Navel :: Orange
Help :: I need somebody

Saturday, March 8, 2008

March Zuva

The word "Zuva" means sunshine. We named our puppy Zuva because she brought light back into our lives following the passing of our beloved Mukiwa.

In March the sun in Northern Alberta is higher in the sky and we are getting a lot more daylight. It feels as though we have come out of a long, dark, winter tunnel and I LOVE being in the sun again. The sun is out but our sunny puppy sure loves rolling in the snow. There's plenty left for her to roll in.


Thursday, March 6, 2008

things I wont do

Since mothering M, I have found that my tolerance for all thinks "icky" has become quite well developed.
I was formerly squeemish. However, I have found that my love for the man makes moments when he holds out his grubby fingers, covered in slobber, with something to put in my mouth, endearing rather than revolting. I still can't stop to think about it too long or I have to turn away, but I do manage to eat a lot of things he offers, most things in fact.
I can
1. eat from his fingers
2. share my drink cup with him
3. change his diaper even though he waits for the most opportune "wiping" moment and rolls away from me
4. kiss his open mouth - which he now offers for kisses at bedtime

and yet... there is still a "LINE" which I cannot approach.
We bathe together nightly and he recently pooped in the tub. Pooped. Fecal matter.
At the first sight of the offending floater, this mom is OUT of there.

Just like they tell you on an airline when giving directions for using oxygen masks in case of emergency. Take care of yourself first and the children afterwards. I am getting the HECK out of dodge and when I have come to my faculties I rescue M from fecal water.

Wednesday, March 5, 2008

List # 4: Cafe Writing: Seven people who have influenced me.

I checked out Cafe Writing for the first time tonight. I had really wanted to do a month full of lists (challenge from NaBloPoMo) and I just am dragging this month. Tonight I am going to incorporate the Cafe Writing Challenge with my list challenge.

Here is my list of Seven People Who Have Influenced Me.

1. Kathleen L. - I don't know that she would really want her full name here, so I am editing a bit. Kathleen is who I consider to be my mentor and has been extremely influential in my professional life. I sought employment in the field I am currently employed in because of a desire to emulate her. She was/is a university administrator who has "semi resigned" to teach instead of "administer". She is highly intelligent, thoughtful, kind and someone I would like to be exactly like some day. She has helped me navigate some tough situations in my professional life and gives sage advise.
2. Gran Ennis. When I was four years old my great grandmother made me feel as though I was the most important person in the world to her. She was interested in me, in what I was interested in, and in giving her time to making memories with me. She was an amazing woman and I have wonderful memories of her.
3. My mother. A while ago - in November - I blogged about my mother on my original blog. Please click HERE to see what I wrote about here then.
4. My extremely handsome brother Justin, whom I also wrote about HERE.
5. Mukiwa. Technically Muk is not a "person" but a dog. She was our pet for five years and recently lost her fight with hip dysplasia and was put to sleep. But she influenced me. She was my driving companion. My working companion. She used to get SO very excited when I cam home from work that she ran in circles over the road and under the culvert and she brought a smile to my face every day when I arrived home. I miss her desperately and the unconditional love she offered in my imperfect life.
6. Shel. My spouse of 11 years. I have written about Shel here, and here.
7. E. B. When I was 20 years old she kissed me. I had never been kissed by a woman and at the same time that I was thrilled beyond measure and TOTALLY in love, I was terrified by the thought of all it meant for my future, my religion and my parents dreams for me.

girafffe list for S


Today we were in another small community where one of our former foster daughters' has returned to live with her mom.
S was a ray of sunshine in our home and we miss her dreadfully. When she left we didn't get everything belonging to her packed up and as laundry loads were completed and we packed up to move we put a box together of things that belonged to her that we needed to return.
Since she has been back with her mom we have visited twice. Once we stopped by and dropped some things off and they were not home. Today was the third time we have stopped by since she returned home in September 2007. When Shel went to the door there was some discussion about wether it was a good idea to visit or not. Mom's new boyfriend expressed that S became very upset following our visits... so we won't do it again. (We don't have a phone number to call in advance or we would call first)
We took the things into the house and S wanted to show me her bedroom.
If I had giraffe money I would buy the following things for S anonymously - so her mom and boyfriend don't feel bad - and because of all the kids in the world, this one should be surrounded by the things that bring her joy.

1. Princess sheets
2. Princess curtains
3. Princess quilt
4. Canopy bed
5. Pink wall paint for her bedroom
6. Princess towel
7. A castle dollhouse
8. A dress up closet with lots of tiaras, feather boas, high heeled shoes and earrings.

Tuesday, March 4, 2008

ten on tuesday: ten favorite drinks

Here is my list from Ten on Tuesday:

Ten favorite drinks

1. Dr. Pepper. I prefer the American recipe to the Canadian one, but I'll make do!
2. Lipton Raspberry Iced Tea. Recently we can't find this in stores - of course.
3. Water. I had to throw this in because I do drink water on occasion.
4. Ruby Red Grapefruit
5. Rooibos. I drank this growing up, LONG before it gained it's current popularity.
6. Coke is it.
7. Cream Soda. Especially from South Africa (green cream soda) when my parents bring it. I also like cream soda candies.
8. Chocolate Milk. I don't like plain milk. I like chocolate milk and even strawberry milk on occasion. Quik - if available
9. Orange juice
10. Apple juice

Sunday, March 2, 2008

Friday fill in

I know I am way late for this but it's been so long since I blogged I am catching up!

1. I'm looking forward to things in our lives calming down next week.
2. I don't handle people around me being sick very well.
3. Peanut M&M's are something I could eat every day.
4. Warmth and sunlight make my spouse VERY happy.
5. Disneyworld (hopefully)here I come!
6.I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE and want LOTS more tattoo(s).
7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to finishing all the room assessments I need to for the check in Sunday, tomorrow my plans include hanging with Shel all day in the hospital and Sunday, I want to watch some good tv after picking up Max!

unconscious mutterings


1.Chemical :: my chemical romance
2.Poker :: face
3.Federal :: reserve
4.Mattress :: king sized ... LOVE IT!
5.Who am I? :: Who are you?
6.Investigation :: Murder
7.In good hands :: granny B being cared for by Aunty Bren
8.8:30 :: Good t.v. starts in 30 minutes
9.Creditors:: Hate them. Hate knowing who they are. Hate ever having had a call from one.
10.Resource :: townhouse (at work)

list #1 "stickers"

Last year I participated in the blog a day every day for the month of November from the website Nablopomo.

This same website is now posting a month to month challenge starting with the Month of March.
I was planning on participating in this months challenge and yesterday I missed day number one which excludes me from the "official" participation list, but I am going to go ahead and continue with my monthly postings anyway.

The theme for the month of March is "lists". I must post one list every day for the entire month. Today I will post two lists.

Here is my list numero uno.

This week at work I have been doing room assessments. I carry a clipboard to write these assessments on. When I was working as a "tracker", tracking kids on house arrest, I carried the same clipboard. I have had it now for a LONG time and it is covered with stickers.
Here is a list of some of the stickers on my clipboard.

1. Big Bird
2. Mickey Mouse with a soccer ball (x2)
3. Vans
4. AAA fasten seatbelts
5. del Monte - Equador
6. Horseshoe
7. Seatbelt warning
8. Wile E. Coyote
9. dinosaur
10. Lightening bolt
11. Cat in the Hat
12. Scooby Doo
13. Coca Cola
14. 2 beavers
15. 2 ladybugs
16 heart
17. Ying/Yang

it still happens

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NYLbYMS2KcA

Thursday, February 28, 2008

Thursday Feb 28

Shel is in the hospital. She was admitted yesterday for what the doc said was an acute cardiac event (I think?) My brain seems to not be functioning well and I am not remembering critical information. (I also forgot to take M's Epi pen to the babysitter).

While I am worried for Shel I am relieved (?) that the doc saw she needed to have some kind of intervention for her blood pressure and admitted her to the hospital. I hope this will bring some answers to the medical problems she has been facing and she will see some improvements in how she feels as a result of all this.

I am somewhat of a workaholic. Under the best of circumstances I can easily work too much, too long and sacrifice family time and personal time for work. It is something I have always done and in times of stress I seem to do it more. I don't know what it is about sitting in a hospital room that makes me want to run to work. Yes, to work. Maybe it is getting lost in the familiar? A distraction? Feeling as if I have control over something? Feeling as though I am accomplishing something? Since sitting in a hospital room I don't feel any of those things.

This morning I got a call from one of the ladies whom I supervise and she called to say she was unable to cover her shift today because she had a medical appointment. Here I sit covering her shift. I don't know why, in my head, my medical emergency is less important than her medical appointment, or if I just need an excuse to say " I HAVE to be at work today ..." really I need no excuse. Even if I don't like the things that are happening at work I get some kind of sick comfort out of it. The same can be said for school. I feel like I HAVE to be there. I let my group and teacher know I would not be in GP for the Friday portion of my class. Missing class gives me anxiety, I am trying to convince myself I am NOT "needed" there and that I won't miss anything critical.

Wednesday, February 27, 2008

RIP Sadee

This is Sadee as a puppy. She and Muk were best of friends. They went to puppy training together and hung out. Last week Sadee was put to rest following the discovery of cancer throughout her body.
I hope she and Muk have rejoined one another in a happier place.
RIP Sadee
Our love and thoughts to Steve and Loralee at this most painful time.

Tuesday, February 26, 2008

Ten on Tuesday

Ten Movies I have intended to watch but haven't.

1. Sicko
2. Cars
3. Ratatouille
4. Juno
5. Jumper
6. The Bucket List
7. Walk the Line ( I can't decide if I actually want to see this or not)
8. 300 (I have mixed feelings on this one also, but it was on my list to see so I am including it for now)
9.Caramel
10. Fool's Gold

Wordless Wednesday

BROTHERS


Sunday, February 24, 2008

Unconscious mutterings

  1. Protocol :: Lcok down
  2. Girlfriends: making out
  3. Shoulders :: to cry on
  4. Coming home :: Ozzy Ozbourne
  5. Let it in :: fresh air
  6. Honor :: Among Thieves
  7. Tyler :: F.
  8. Thriller :: Micheal Jackson
  9. Angela:: I girl I knew in school
  10. The winner is :: ME! at the bonspiel Karaokee :)
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  • Friday, February 22, 2008

    Thursday Thirteen: songs I will download

    I got all excited about NaBloPoMo monthly challenge for March. NaBloPoMo USED to be about blogging every day for the month of November. Now the challenge has been extended on a monthly basis and the topic for March is "LISTS".

    I'm a good list maker. I can make lists that would amaze you - unless lists DON'T amaze you, then you would just think I was a bit of a freak - like my spouse thinks. However, I am excited to do the list a day for the month of March and in my excitement I think I have had some kind of a brain freeze on topics to write about here for the rest of the month. I have been pretty busy at work which makes a difference to how much energy I have for blogging. The busier I am the less energy I have to write something riveting. (assuming anything I write is riveting)

    I thought I would make Thursday 13 be about how many unique ways I can procrastinate, then I realized I don't want to reveal myself TOO much to the three people who might read this blog because if I wrote about how I procrastinate then every time they ever see me they with think " Ah HAH, Julie is procrastinating again." Maybe they already know I am?

    I'm not feeling hugely motivated right now but I did promise my spouse I would blog today so here goes my thirteen for today. if this works how I want it to you should be able to click on each one for a link to the utube video of each song.

    13 songs (out of THOUSANDS) I will download to my mp3 player when I stop procratinating it ...

    1. Outkast "Hey Ya"
    2. Black Eyed Peas "Where is the Love"
    3. Beth Hart "LA song"
    4. KT Tunstall "Black Horse and the Cherry Tree"
    5. Godsmack "Voodoo"
    6. Plain White T's "Hey There Delilah"
    7. Rob Thomas "Now Comes the Night"
    8. Daughtry "Over You"
    9. Sean Paul "Get Busy"
    10. Matchbox20 "3am"
    11. Toad the Wet Sprocket "Throw it All Away"
    12. Indigo Girls "Last Tears"
    13. Dave Matthews Band "Ants Marching"

    Tuesday, February 19, 2008

    17 months old today


    Hey there my main man.

    Today you are 17 months old. It's hard to believe you have been here for so long already. I still feel sleep deprived from the first months after you came home from the hospital but you are a GREAT night sleeper (when Helios is not opening your bedroom door and sneaking into your crib for nightly play sessions). I have had a few days off this week and you have almost driven me completely whacko. You want to communicate with us so much but not matter how hard I try I CANNOT UNDERSTAND what you are screaming about. So you scream some more. I DO understand the screams of frustration and this week I have wanted to join you. Screaming. In frustration. And then you smile.

    Yesterday your mom and I went into town to the grocery store. You are so curious looking at everything and everyone and you were GREAT sitting in the cart almost the whole time - usually you get bored very quickly and try to stand up in the seat. On our way out of the store I was pulling the cart and mom was holding you - you had both hands on the handle of the cart and you were "pushing". Oh you LAUGHED. a deep down, gutteral laugh that had your mom and I laughing right along with you. You have such a beautiful smile and you laugh a lot. Thank goodness those moments of laughter can make me forget the screaming --temporarily.

    Today we had a lady come over from Early Intervention. She did a "short" assessment on you because we have been worried about your screaming and your lack of eye contact. Of course from the moment she arrived you were looking at her right in the eyes and I don't think you screamed once. It was nice to hear that she thinks you are on track with your development (other than your speech) and she is giving us a referral to the speech therapist for you.

    You are fiercely independent I am already having nightmares about what is in store for us as you grow older. You show your intelligence every moment by picking up on the things that we do and mimicing us and constantly exploring your world. it is a joy to watch you with the pets. Tora is your very best friend and your mom and I are stunned that Nyx and Helios don't go running whenever you walk into the room. Your expressions of love for them are not so gentle, we are still working on it with you and they are extremely patient.

    Last night for the first time in a LONG time you woke up with a night terror. Your mom and I both came to you to make sure you were ok and you lay in my arms while your mom went to get you a new bottle. You are SO tall already, you barely fit in my arms. You are growing so fast. It was wonderful to hold you and rock you.

    Sleep well baby of mine. Rest your head close to my heart, never to part, baby of mine.

    The Translator: BOOK

    I was completely captivated by the story told by Daoud Hari in his book " The Translator".

    His writing was straightforward and concise. I read the entire book in just two days and passed it on to my spouse to read. Some of his descriptions of the atrocities he encountered are shocking and completely mind blowing. In contrast to the book I previously completed (Eat, Pray, Love) I was moved by the plight of the millions of displaced Sudanese currently living in refugee camps, unable to work and in dire need of appropriate food and shelter.

    At the conclusion of the book Daoud has printed the Universal declaration of Human Rights. I am ashamed to say that I have not read this declaration prior to my reading of this book. I was interested to see how many "democratic" countries do not follow the articles which were accepted by the United Nations in 1948.

    I think this book is a "must read" which I will highly recommend to others.

    Eat, Pray, Love : BOOK

    I just completed "Eat, Pray, Love" by Elizabeth Gilbert.
    It has been on my list of books to read for quite a while and last week when I was at school I came across it in paperback at Costco and couldn't resist.

    The novel is divided into three "books", each book one part of the personal journey of the writer.
    The first book is about Italy. I was immediately captured by the writers style and humor and didn't put it down - until I reached book 2. The second part of the journey is to India where the author "pursues devotion" living in an Ashram. It was here that she lost me.

    I managed to finish the book but I found the last two books to be tedious and a chore. I was completely uninterested in her personal journey to find the divine, her struggle with meditation and chanting, and her "preachiness". Completely uninterested. I was also offended by the fact that this woman leaves everything in New York to travel overseas to "find herself". I think it was a journey of the elite. It was an unreachable journey for the "everyday" person living in the USA who finds themselves in painful circumstances.

    The last part of the writers journey takes her to Bali where she pursues "balance".
    I would have thought that this part of the story would have captured my interest again because I am very interested in the concept of balance and how to find it. I didn't find any balance in this book.

    The writers style didn't change, and honestly I liked her style of writing. I simply found the book a little to "self aggrandizing" and presumptuous. I thought the author was preachy in parts and that turned me off also. Right after I read this book I read a memoir about a man from Darfur. As I read his account of his life I was further turned off by a woman with money to burn who took months and months to "find herself" and preach to me.

    This was not at all what I expected from the book and that made it even more of a disappointment. Unfortunately I won't recommend this book to anyone (not that it needs my endorsement!)

    888 update

    non-fiction (used to be autobiography/biography)
    1. Measure of a Man. Sidney Poitier
    2. Animal, Vegetable, Miracle. Barbara Kingsolver
    3. A Long Way Gone. Ishmael Beah
    4. Spycatcher. Peter Wright
    5. The Places in Between. Rory Stewart (completed January 19th 2008)
    6. Infidel. Ayaan hirsi Ali
    7. Glass Castle.
    8. Fish:

    Young Adult Fiction
    1. The Canning Season. Polly Horvath
    2. Godless. Pete Hautman
    3. Autobiography of my Dead Brother. Walter Dean Myers
    4. The Invention of Hugo Cabret. Brian Selznick
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    Pulitzer Prize Winners
    1. Middlesex. Jeffrey Eugenides (Completed January 21st 2008)
    2. Gilead. Marilynne Robinson (Completed January 13th 2008)
    3. The Known World. (currently reading)
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    From the NYT Bestseller list. (I don't want to limit myself to books that have already been written. There might be some good ones published this year)
    1. Bleeding Kansas. Sarah Paretsky. #15 January 13 2008
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    Banned or "challenged" books
    1. Go Ask Alice
    2. The Lorax.
    3. The Well of Lonliness
    4. Steal This Book. Abbie Hofmann
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    Books already on my Bookshelf
    1. I am counting these three books as one. They were already on my shelf and I had never read them but they are young adult books (and totally predictable).
    Gordon Korman. Island: Book one "Shipwreck" (completed February 1 2008)
    Gordon Korman. Island: Book two "Survival" (completed February 1 2008)
    Gordon Korman. Island: Book Three "Escape" (completed February 1 2008)

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    School reading assignments
    I am back in school and I have readings I am assigned to do throughout the term. I know that each of them is not a "book" but there will a lot more than 8 of them over the course of the year. Since I have to do the reading for class I will keep track of it here because having it be a part of this process will be added motivation for me to actually read the stuff.
    1. Campus response to a student gunman. Asmussen K. & Creswell, J. (1995) 16 pages. Completed January 11 2008
    2. Motivation of parent involvement in secondary-level schooling. Bertrand, R. & Deslandes, R. (2005) 11 pages. Completed January 11 2008

    3. Constructions of survival and coping by women who have survived childhood sexual abuse. Morrow, S. & Smith, M. 20 pages. Completed February 7 2008
    4. Enlightenment in chemical dependency treatment programs: a grounded theory. Feen-Calligan (199) 14 pages. Completed February 7 2008
    5. Reflecting on columbine high:Ideologies of privilege in "standardized" schools. Tonso, K. (2002) 14 pages. Completed February 7 2008


    Books on my "to be read" list.
    1. Saturday. Ian McEwan (completed January 27 2007)
    2. Eat, Pray, Love. Elizabeth Gilbert (completed February 16 2008)
    3. The Translator: A Tribesman's Memoir of Darfur. Daoud Hari (completed February 18 2008)
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    Monday, February 18, 2008

    Unconscious Mutterings

    1. Passport :: international travel ...YAY!
    2. Small world :: after all. It's a small world after all...
    3. Radio :: NPR
    4. Marine ::Biology
    5. Wall :: Berlin Wall
    6. Wanna be :: rich
    7. Pigtails :: me 25 years ago
    8. Hyphen :: punctuation
    9. 9.99 :: 1
    10. Unrated :: unedited

    Saturday, February 16, 2008

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    Friday, February 15, 2008

    Friday Fill in

    1. Snowdrops are small and white, clean and bright, (just like edelweiss.)
    2. I'm going to set up my PS2 so i can play some games I got for Christmas.
    3. Suddenly (by Soraya) is a song whose lyrics have meaning to me.
    4. Just one sip and I can tell it's not American Dr. Pepper.
    5. Deep in a good book or working on a cross stitch is where I'm happiest.
    6. I believe that Mexican food is a necessary part of life.
    7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to finishing a book, tomorrow my plans include starting to read a new book and Sunday, I want to nap!

    Thursday, February 14, 2008

    Thursday Thirteen: favorite romantic gestures

    Thirteen Things about my favorite romantic gestures


    My favorite romantic gestures ... because my spousal unit posted hers

    1. Cooking with onions (because she hates them so)
    2. Holding hands. This is how we first "got together" and I love the reminder - also because we really don't hold hands in public because we somewhat fear being bashed, so when we do hold hands "I like it a lot"
    3. Walking together at night on the golf course in the summer
    4. Kick butt Easter baskets
    5. Putting lotion on my elbows. I am not good at the putting on of lotion. I simply don't take the time to do it. I have crackly elbows and she takes care of them for me
    6. Buying me roses on the opening night of my acting debut. This is a bigger deal than it seems because we live in a teeny northern Canadian town, with not a lot of access to fresh flowers in the dead of winter
    7. Packing food for road trips, and packing my bag for me when I go to school. I need to track down the picture we took in the U-Haul when we left for our trip up here and scan it in so I can show you. Man there was a LOT of good food, and she always packs my favorites!
    8. Letting me win at scrabble
    9. Laughing at my jokes
    10. Letting me take naps in the afternoon on the weekend when technically it is my time to be hanging with 17 month old M
    11. Coming with me to the great white north where we needed to relocate in order to preserve our relationship (the grand ol' US of A would not allow a multinational gay couple to stay together legally - even if we WANTED to contribute to taxes etc!)
    12. Watching "Set it off" with me in the theater all alone and not walking away thinking I was a whacko when I couldn't stop SOBBING.
    13. Sitting on the toilet (with the seat down - DUR) when M and I bath. I know at the end of a long day the last thing she wants to do is watch me play in the tub with the Maxster, so I love it when she comes and chats with me as we splash

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    Wednesday, February 13, 2008

    Monday, February 11, 2008

    unconscious mutterings

    Score :: GGGGOOOOOALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL!
    Luxurious :: Sheets
    Party :: All the time, party all the time. My girl wants to party all the time.
    Limited edition :: expensive
    Security :: Breach
    Betty :: Rubble
    Under construction :: Roads in Alberta
    Pest :: Control
    Director :: Ridley Scott
    Express ::Mail is expensive and notvery fast

    Saturday, February 9, 2008

    Friday Fill in

    1. I'm looking forward to temperatures that are not in the MINUS FORTY range.
    2. Morocco is a place I always wanted to visit and haven't made it there yet.
    3. I've fallen in love with my baby boy's smile.
    4. Six of one, half a dozen of the other.
    5. Addiction to food makes me fat.
    6. I crack myself up!
    7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to finishing my homework, tomorrow my plans include having a hotdog at Costco and Sunday, I want to read and take a nap!

    Thursday, February 7, 2008

    giving up "hope" for lent

    So it's Lent.
    I missed my FAVORITE holiday of the year - Fat Tuesday - and I have no excuse.
    Obviously it is not my favorite holiday or I would have remembered it, but I think it's cool to have a holiday dedicated ENTIRELY to gorging yourself before fasting.
    So Lent. I am not Catholic, but every year I give up something for Lent. Every year I give up the SAME thing for lent. HOPE.
    That's right, I give up hope for 40 days out of the year. I could probably give it up for more than that, but I try to limit myself.
    I would write more on the topic, but I am in despair right now so I have to sign off and get me some chocolate. That's why I can't give up chocolate - how would I get through having no hope if I couldn't bury the pain in chocolate.
    (I will just say this. Mitt Romney withdrew from the republican race for candidacy and that ALMOST dragged me RIGHT back into having hope again after I had given it up. I had to fight myself to maintain my hopelessness, but that's what lent is about - effort.)

    weather request

    This is the picnic table where we sit for coffee break in the summer at work.


    I'd like to put in a weather request.
    I know I have chosen to live in the north with my family and part of living in the north means cold winters.
    I don't hate winter. I like snow because it covers up the ugly brown of death following the fall, but can we PLEASE get an increase in temperature? We are currently sitting at -23 degrees celcius (around -9 degrees F). Because the wind never stops blowing, the actual temperature is colder than that. A few weeks ago the temperature was -53 degrees F.
    We have been very lucky this winter because we moved out to an acreage with a LONG driveway and we don't have any snow removal implements other than shovels. We have some contractors using our yard for their staging area while they do work on a bridge by our house and they have been great about ploughing out our driveway. A couple of times I would not have made it out of the yard for DAYS without their help. Shovelling snow when it is -23 (or colder) takes a very long time and energy - neither of which I have much of.
    It is snowing now. The snow can come, but PLEASE PLEASE can we get some warmer air up this way?

    Wednesday, February 6, 2008

    Thursday Thirteen: things in my office

    Here are 13 things that are in my office right now:


    Some plants.

    A jar of coins





    A goofy punching bag



    An Ozzy Bobblehead



    Stapler and hole puncher (which I could not do without)


    A mickey mouse can



    A watering can





    A bong - which I confiscated (it does not belong to me.... well, I guess it does now!)



    A poster about something near and dear to my heart. (Neve Campbell)


    My africa carving



    A coke ad




    A dog toy. (yes, it is called "heave a beaver, but that's not ENTIRELY why I have it)




    A buddha.



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    Tuesday, February 5, 2008

    Who would you vote for in the USA election?

    http://www.wqad.com/Global/link.asp?L=259460
    The WQAD candidate survey is based on the original SELECT A CANDIDATE survey developed by Minnesota Public Radio and posted at: http://minnesota.publicradio.org/projects/ongoing/select_a_candidate/.

    I took this survey because my spouse did. I lived in the USA for a lot of years and because I was not a citizen I was not permitted to vote. While I was there I felt somehwat detatched from the electoral process and to be honest I didn't follow politics too closely, other than immigration laws, which never did consider me as a potential legitimate immigrant.

    I was so naive to politics that I was shocked to realize how politically slanted the different news broadcasts were. This came to my attention when my in-laws were staying with us. My MIL would watch the news, talk to the newscasters as though they were listening to her, and she AGREED with what they were saying. That's when I knew something was amiss. My mother in law and I can agree on ..... Oh right, NOTHING. For example, she managed to argue with me ona topic I was AGREEING with her on! I literally had to stop and say to her in the middle of a conversation "You know we are saying EXACTLY the same thing here don't you?" She just thought because I was opening my mouth and noise was coming out that I was therefore diametrically opposed to her.

    Now I live with my family in Canada, where we can live LEGALLY as a married couple, and where I could sponsor my spouse for landed immigrant status. Now that my family is directly and constantly affected by the decisions made by politicians I tend to follow politics, even (especially) local politics, more closely.

    I have been watching with interest the unfolding of the elections this year in the USA. I have also learned that while I no longer live there, many decisions made in the US still affect me.
    My spousal unit and I differ in our political outlook. (WHA? such a shocker!) She is a radical libertarian feminist. I am a conservative. Well, ok, as much as I CAN be conservative considering I am also a dyke. (dyke and conservative are not two words which go typically alongside one another in the same sentence)

    I used to think that feminism was a dirty word. I believe in the death penalty - in some cases. But I do watch CNN (or as my spousal unit's parets refer to it "the communist news network".)
    So as we have been watching the democratic debates and following the political races currently ongoing, we have numerous discussions about who we would support and why. I have been a supporter of Obama since the very beginning and of course, my spousal unit supports Hillary Clinton. I took this test tonight and what do you know? I have more ISSUE similarities with Hillary than I do with Barack Obama. That's what it's all about folks. Issues. I'm going to have to get over my conflict with feminism I think.

    Know your issues.

    Regardless who leads the democratic posrty to this election, it will be a historic event and one I am thrilled to see in my lifetime. Rock the vote!

    Monday, February 4, 2008

    Partners in Crime

    It may look very innocent but it is not. These two have partnered up and planned late night crib rendezvous. Helios has figured out some way to open Max's door from the outside and join him in the crib. He waits until the witching hour when all the family is dead to the world and then makes his sneak attack. He climbs into the crib with Max and wakes him up and then they start to play. Max of course gets carried away and even though I am certain Helios attempts to keep him quiet he cannot help but let a squeal of joy escape. Since he has learned the art of stealth from me - and therefore CANNOT be quiet no matter how he tries, he wakes up the whole house with his laughter.
    They are punks. Both of them.
    As a result of this little 3am tete a tete, everyone else in the entire house is exhausted. They think it is the "cats meow." They can't wait to do it again.



    WHO ME?

    Saturday, February 2, 2008

    888 update

    non-fiction (used to be autobiography/biography)
    1. Measure of a Man. Sidney Poitier
    2. Animal, Vegetable, Miracle. Barbara Kingsolver
    3. A Long Way Gone. Ishmael Beah
    4. Spycatcher. Peter Wright
    5. The Places in Between. Rory Stewart (completed January 19th 2008)
    6. Infidel. Ayaan hirsi Ali
    7. Glass Castle.
    8. Fish:

    Young Adult Fiction
    1. The Canning Season. Polly Horvath
    2. Godless. Pete Hautman
    3. Autobiography of my Dead Brother. Walter Dean Myers
    4. The Invention of Hugo Cabret. Brian Selznick
    5.
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    8.

    Pulitzer Prize Winners
    1. Middlesex. Jeffrey Eugenides (Completed January 21st 2008)
    2. Gilead. Marilynne Robinson (Completed January 13th 2008)
    3. The Known World. (currently reading)
    4.
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    8.

    From the NYT Bestseller list. (I don't want to limit myself to books that have already been written. There might be some good ones published this year)
    1. Bleeding Kansas. Sarah Paretsky. #15 January 13 2008
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    Banned or "challenged" books
    1. Go Ask Alice
    2. The Lorax.
    3. The Well of Lonliness
    4. Steal This Book. Abbie Hofmann
    5.
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    8.


    Books already on my Bookshelf
    1. I am counting these three books as one. They were already on my shelf and I had never read them but they are young adult books (and totally predictable).
    Gordon Korman. Island: Book one "Shipwreck" (completed February 1 2008)
    Gordon Korman. Island: Book two "Survival" (completed February 1 2008)
    Gordon Korman. Island: Book Three "Escape" (completed February 1 2008)

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    School reading assignments
    I am back in school and I have readings I am assigned to do throughout the term. I know that each of them is not a "book" but there will a lot more than 8 of them over the course of the year. Since I have to do the reading for class I will keep track of it here because having it be a part of this process will be added motivation for me to actually read the stuff.
    1. Campus response to a student gunman. Asmussen K. & Creswell, J. (1995) 16 pages. Completed January 11 2008
    2. Motivation of parent involvement in secondary-level schooling. Bertrand, R. & Deslandes, R. (2005) 11 pages. Completed January 11 2008

    3. Constructions of survival and coping by women who have survived chilhood sexual abuse. Morrow, S. & Smith, M. 20 pages.
    4. Enlightenment in chemical dependency treatment programs: a grounded theory. Feen-Calligan (199) 14 pages.
    5. Reflecting on columbine high:Ideologies of privilege in "standardized" schools. Tonso, K. (2002) 14 pages.


    Books on my "to be read" list.
    1. Saturday. Ian McEwan (completed January 27 2007)
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    Friday, February 1, 2008

    Karma


    I have a really good relationship with my brother and his wife. When I moved back to Canada they graciously opened their home to me and let me stay for three months while I looked for work and a place to live and bring my family to. It was a huge sacrifice on their part, they were fairly newlywed and my sister in law was pregnant with their first child. She had never met me and my brother and I had not lived under the same roof since I had been in high school - a long time ago.

    We hit it off famously. I am so very glad we were able to spend that time together as it forged for us a bond which has lasted to this day. My brother and I bonded over movies and soccer games and being "siblings" again. My sister in law and I bonded over being two women in a house with one man. Now unfortunately we live over five hours away from one another and we miss being able to hang out. The best part of it was we didn't have ONE argument. I am pretty certain that others in my immediate family are stunned over this. I think it's kind of funny. We are all very strong minded, very opinionated adults and we managed to make the time together a wonderful one, with NO exceptions.

    J2 (my bro) and his wife have moved recently into a new home and they now have a yard and a space for a DOG!

    All of our growing up years we have had dogs. J2 has always been the most devoted to the pets, he just loves them. Of all 5 kids, he is the most gentle, most natural "dog" person. Since he has been married, he and his wife have lived in apartments and townhomes and other non-dog allowing places. They have always planned that once they move into their own home they will get a dog.

    Earlier this week I was talking to my sister in law on the phone. She is also a pet lover and a rescuer of pets, not unlike my spouse. She has been watching news on tv of local shelters having to put down animals from being overcrowded and she has been trying to convince J2 that they should adopt a dog sooner than the original plan of this upcoming summer. J2 has managed to stay firmly attached to his decision of waiting until it is warmer. Des had some blankets and other supplies to drop off at the local animal shelter and J2 (wisely) instructed her (firmly) to stay away from the shelters! He knows she would not be able to resist bringing home an addition to the family. While we were talking I told Des that training a puppy to use the bathroom outside is easier in the winter than in the summer, because the dogs will go to the bathroom sooner in the cold. She passed on my suggestion to J2 and he suggested in return that I jump in a frozen lake! He does not want to train a dog in the wintertime - especially since temperatures this week have plummeted to below 40 degrees and colder.

    Fast forward to last night. When I go to school I have to travel to another town. A friend in class has graciously opened her home to me to stay at when I travel, saving me the cost of a hotel room every two weeks. A few weeks ago I offered to her that if she ever needed us to help her out in any way we would be more than happy to. This week she asked us to keep her two dogs for a week while she travelled out of the province. Of course we were happy to oblige, and I promptly forgot she was coming. Shel called me last night at work to let me know our guests had arrived. Odie (an older and very gentle dog) and Fozzie(a german Shepherd PUPPY less than 3 months old) were making themselves at home.

    When I got home after midnight it was my turn to take the puppies to the bathroom. Our two dogs are very familiar with the routine - I go to the door, open it, let them out and in a few minutes let them back in. With two new dogs in the mix this is not a good idea at midnight. We live on an acreage and I didn't want "roaming" dogs who didn't know me at all and therefore may not answer me when I called them. I let our dogs out first, then I had to dress and go out one at a time with Odie and Foz.
    My theory on how dogs will go to the bathroom quicker in the cold ..... not true. My theory that dogs who don't know me from Adam won't come when I call them ... true. The temperature last night, a balmy -28 degrees celcius.

    The puppy slept in his own crate brought from home and he cried all night. I got up twice to take him to the bathroom and both times had to totally dress and go outside. It was cold. He didn't get any quicker as the night went on.




    My brother - he's a smart dude.

    Monday, January 28, 2008

    my brain apparently has little grey matter

    ***Your Brain is Green***
    Of all the brain types, yours has the most balance.You are able to see all sides to most problems and are a good problem solver.You need time to work out your thoughts, but you don't get stuck in bad thinking patterns.
    You tend to spend a lot of time thinking about the future, philosophy, and relationships (both personal and intellectual).
    What Color Is Your Brain?http://www.blogthings.com/whatcolorisyourbrainquiz/

    unconscious mutterings Jan 28

    Booze :: nasty tasting
    Counter :: Terrorism
    Action :: Hero
    Trial :: Judge
    Wheelchair :: Basketball
    1-800 :: Late night TV shopping
    Chop :: Suey
    Relatives ::
    Bed sheets :: Cozy
    Funnel :: Cloud

    Thursday, January 24, 2008

    Friday Fill In

    1. Sunshine on my shoulder makes me happy.
    2. I would like a vowel Vanna, please.
    3. Eating food that someone else has prepared (and cleaned up after) tastes SO good!
    4. Thursday is my favorite day of the week because it has been for as long as I can remember and it usually has REALLY good tv - unless there is a writers strike.
    5. My hands are my best feature.
    6. We could learn so much from sesame street.
    7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to finishing my group project, tomorrow my plans include sitting in class all day (WAA) and Sunday, I want to do ONE project in the house before I take a nap!

    Thanks to http://fridayfillins.blogspot.com/ for this blog opportunity!

    Monday, January 21, 2008

    Unconscious mutterings Jan 21

    President :: "Dear Mr President, come take a walk with me.."
    Stare :: off into space
    Embrace :: full body hug
    Movie :: THEATER and Popcorn
    Everything :: everywhere
    Profile :: picture
    Satire :: Colbert
    Erratic :: weather patterns
    Costume :: Jewelry
    Secretary :: underpaid

    Friday, January 18, 2008

    Link To Shel's Blog

    My spousal unit started to blog after I bugged her about it endlessly.
    Her blog is up and for some reason she needs some link to it to get something or other.
    So I am putting a link here in this post so she can get whatever it is she needs...
    Love you babe!

    http://byrningbunny.wordpress.com/

    wasting time in the afternoon

    1. If your doctor told you TODAY that you were pregnant, what would you say? I would be TOTALLY shocked since I haven't had sex with a man, but I would be very happy and hope it was at least twins.
    2. When was the last time you flew in a plane? November
    3. What did the last text message you sent say? I was texting about American Idol and I think the last thing I texted was that I would wear the hat that the dude who was singing was wearing.
    4. What features do you find most attractive in the preferred sex? intelligence, humor.
    5. What is a goal you would like to accomplish in the near future? finish a project at home.
    6. Shoe size? 9.5
    7. Been to Mexico? Tijuana baby.
    8. When is the last time you had a massage? It was over five years ago and hurt the bottom of my feet so bad I could barely walk.
    9. What was the last TV show you watched? The L Word
    10. What are your plans for the weekend? house projects
    11. If your significant other asked you to marry them TODAY what would you say? I would say "Are you confused? We are already married!"
    12. What is in the back seat of your car right now? I have a truck and in the back is garbage right now for the dump.
    13. What were you doing at 8 am this morning? working.
    14. If you could marry any celebrity today who would it be? P!NK or Neve Campbell
    15. Have you ever been to a strip club? not since I applied for work in one
    16. What is the best ice cream flavor? Thrify's pineapple coconut
    17. What is the last sporting event you watched? EPL Liverpool game
    18. Who is the last person you sent a comment/message on myspace? I don't myspace
    19. Ever go camping? yup
    20. Where is your mom right now? at home waiting to pick my dad up from the airport
    21. What color is your watch? Silver
    22. Last phone call? The library to say a book we ordered is in
    21. Are you allergic to anything? yes
    22. Favorite pair of shoes you wear all the time? Birks
    23. What is one thing you have learned about life recently? not too much recently
    24. Do you own an iPod? no, but I do have an MP3 player
    25. Do any of your friends have children? some do
    26. What do you do at work? work
    27. Who was your last kiss? M when I put him to bed last night.
    28. How did you get one of your scars? I was throwing one of those exacto knife things into the air and catching it by the handle and I missed it and it dropped into my foot.
    29. What is your moms name? Ma, or Mom
    30. Are you ticklish? I tell people that I am not and so far they believe me
    31. Ever cried for no reason? No, I always have a very good reason for crying
    32. Ever broken a bone? yes
    33. Do you have any piercings? yes, and hopefully more soon
    34. Have you ever changed clothes while driving? yes.
    35. Have you ever cleaned up someone elses vomit? yup and it makes me vomit so then I have to clean more.
    36. What was the last thing you ordered at McDonalds? cheeseburger meal
    37. What is your favorite color to wear? I have a lot of navy blue things.
    38. What is the longest plane ride you have ever been on? From South Africa to Europe on the way to Canada.
    39. What is the longest road trip you have ever taken? Edmonton, Alberta to Sydney, Nova Scotia.
    40. What are your turn-offs?
    41. What was your 1st alcoholic beverage? I tasted beer with a cousin, but didn't like it much.
    42. What was your last alcoholic beverage? Mikes Hard Lemonade
    43. What are you craving right now? sleep

    http://www.blogthings.com/areyouahippiequiz/

    You are a Hippie

    You are a total hippie. While you may not wear birks (I DO!) or smell of incense, you have the soul of a hippie.You don't trust authority (sometimes I do!), and you do as you please.
    You're willing to take a stand, even when what you believe isn't popular.
    You like to experiment with ideas, lifestyles (what kind of "lifestyle?), and different subcultures.
    You always gravitate toward what's radical and subversive. Normal, mainstream culture doesn't really resonate with you. I love the IDEA of being a hippie, but I am more mainstream than this makes me appear.

    Friday Fill In

    1. The last compliment I got was from _____; he/she said _____. I don't remember the last compliment I recieved!
    2. I'm reading my second book for the 888 challenge and two articles for class.
    3. I woke up today and thought it sure is dark in here.
    4. Why does the sky appear blue?
    5. The last thing I ate was popcorn in bed last night.
    6. January... is almost over already.
    7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to hanging my flag in the driveway so the MD will plough the snow, tomorrow my plans include moving the bookshelves from the living room so M can't pull books onto the floor and Sunday, I want to have my group assignments completed so I can nap without guilt!

    Thursday, January 17, 2008

    13 things I know, 2nd Thursday 13 on this blog

    Today for Thursday Thirteen I am listing 13 things I know.


    1. I know that my parents love me and believe I can achieve anything I want to.

    2. I know that I am not patient, though I am WAYYYYY more patient than I was in 1999 when I started working for the division of youth corrections. That job changed me more for the better than any other single experience.

    3. I know that the polar ice caps are melting too fast and this is not a good thing. http://www.nrdc.org/globalWarming/qthinice.asp

    4. Maya Angelou said "If someone tells you who they are believe them."

    People tell you who they are through their actions and through their words. Many times I have heard the words and seen the actions and still WANTED to believe that a person was different than what they were telling me. In every case I have been proven wrong and people have stayed true to who they say they are. Sometimes it is easier to see this in retrospect.

    5. I know that I have a wonderful spouse who has seen my light and who loves my dark.

    6. I know that I have a thirty year mortgage. We waited a long time before we bought a house. We may have missed out on some good opportunities, but we are happy where we are and look forward to making improvements on our home. They will take 30 years.

    7. I know that I am a lesbian. People treat me differently because of this. How do I know? Because I was an adult before I ever "came out" and so I have lived as a "straight" woman. People have treated me differently because of what they THINK I am and what they THINK I do. Some people who meet me for the first time judge me before they know anything about me and some people who have known me all my life act as though I have changed. It is a part of the fabric of my life and I don't resent it. I know that I resent a culture where children are taught that others who are different are bad, wrong, evil or "less than" everyone else. I don't care if someone hates me when they know me. I am not always agreeable.

    8. I know that having "good teeth" is underestimated in this world. Having bad teeth is a pain (literally) and expensive.

    9. I know that this year Shel and I will adopt our M and be parents - not just foster parents - for the very first time. We have waited a LONG time to be parents and it didn't happen in the way we wanted it to. I know that Shel would still like a daughter.

    10. I know the the death penalty is not a deterrent to crime. Innocent people have been put to death and guilty people have gone free.

    11. I know how to cross stitch.

    12. I know that music and laughter are integral to my life.

    13. I know that I have a lot to learn.

    Sunday, January 13, 2008

    unconscious mutterings

    Dream big :: Go far
    Competition :: Olympics
    Torn :: Rip
    Modeling :: my cousin Matt
    Coaster :: Roller
    Slut :: man whore
    Spread :: I can't believe it's not butter
    Amanda :: Oh Mandy, you came and you gave without taking
    Romance :: Novels
    Paradise :: Lost

    888 Challenge

    I am updating my list and categories. I have added one category but still need to add one more.

    non-fiction (used to be autobiography/biography)
    1. Measure of a Man. Sidney Poitier
    2. Animal, Vegetable, Miracle. Barbara Kingsolver
    3. A Long Way Gone. Ishmael Beah
    4. Spycatcher. Peter Wright
    5. The Places in Between. Rory Stewart (added)
    6. Infidel. Ayaan hirsi Ali
    7. Glass Castle.
    8. Fish:

    Newbery Award Winners (changed from childrens books)
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    Pulitzer Prize Winners
    1. Middlesex. Jeffrey Eugenides (moved to the correct category)
    2. Gilead. Marilynne Robinson (the book I am reading currently)
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    From the NYT Bestseller list. (I don't want to limit myself to books that have already been written. There might be some good ones published this year)
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    Banned or "challenged" books
    1. Go Ask Alice
    2. The Lorax.
    3. Lady Chatterly's Lover.
    4. The Well of Lonliness
    5. Steal This Book. Abbie Hofmann
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    Books already on my Bookshelf
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    School reading assignments (added category today)
    I am back in school and I have readings I am assigned to do throughout the term. I know that each of them is not a "book" but there will a lot more than 8 of them over the course of the year. Since I have to do the reading for class I will keep track of it here because having it be a part of this process will be added motivation for me to actually read the stuff.

    Monday, January 7, 2008

    What's in a Name - a bit trippy

    I found this on :http://www.blogthings.com/whatsyournameshiddenmeaningquiz/
    Tell me what you think - anything like me?

    You are fair, honest, and logical. You are a natural leader, and people respect you.You never give up, and you will succeed... even if it takes you a hundred tries.You are rational enough to see every part of a problem. You are great at giving other people advice.

    You are a very lucky person. Things just always seem to go your way.And because you're so lucky, you don't really have a lot of worries. You just hope for the best in life.You're sometimes a little guilty of being greedy. Spread your luck around a little to people who need it.

    You are relaxed, chill, and very likely to go with the flow.You are light hearted and accepting. You don't get worked up easily.Well adjusted and incredibly happy, many people wonder what your secret to life is.

    You can be pretty tightly wound. It's easy to get you excited... which can be a good or bad thing.You have a lot of enthusiasm, but it fades rather quickly. You don't stick with any one thing for very long.You have the drive to accomplish a lot in a short amount of time. Your biggest problem is making sure you finish the projects you start.

    You are friendly, charming, and warm. You get along with almost everyone.You work hard not to rock the boat. Your easy going attitude brings people together.At times, you can be a little flaky and irresponsible. But for the important things, you pull it together.

    You are very open. You communicate well, and you connect with other people easily.You are a naturally creative person. Ideas just flow from your mind.A true chameleon, you are many things at different points in your life. You are very adaptable.

    You are usually the best at everything ... you strive for perfection. You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive. You have the classic "Type A" personality.You are a seeker. You often find yourself restless - and you have a lot of questions about life.

    You tend to travel often, to fairly random locations. You're most comfortable when you're far away from home.

    You are quite passionate and easily tempted. Your impulses sometimes get you into trouble.You are truly an original person. You have amazing ideas, and the power to carry them out.Success comes rather easily for you... especially in business and academia.Some people find you to be selfish and a bit overbearing.

    You're a strong person.You are wild, crazy, and a huge rebel. You're always up to something.You have a ton of energy, and most people can't handle you. You're very intense.You definitely are a handful, and you're likely to get in trouble. But your kind of trouble is a lot of fun.You are very intuitive and wise.

    You understand the world better than most people.You also have a very active imagination. You often get carried away with your thoughts.You are prone to a little paranoia and jealousy. You sometimes go overboard in interpreting signals.You are full of energy. You are spirited and boisterous.You are bold and daring. You are willing to do some pretty outrageous things.Your high energy sometimes gets you in trouble. You can have a pretty bad temper at times.You are a free spirit, and you resent anyone who tries to fence you in.You are unpredictable, adventurous, and always a little surprising.You may miss out by not settling down, but you're too busy having fun to care.

    888 Challenge

    We decided this year to get into the 888 challenge. That is 8 books in 8 categories in 2008.
    Since we order books together from the library we pretty much read very similar books so it makes sense to have the same lists. Unfortunately, we don't have exactly the same interests and it is a bit of a cop out for me to copy Shel's list since hers is already compiled and mine is not even started.
    64 books means more than one book per week and I am already behind because I haven't read anything yet.
    Over the Christmas break I was so panicked about not getting enough reading completed I had three books going at once. That turned out to be a mistake, two books I seem to handle ok, three was crazy and I wasn't reading enough in any of them to get ahead. Last night I finished one, almost finished the second and I hope I can concentrate on the third one before the weekend when I am back in school.

    Here is the START to my list. I will have to come back and fill it in when I get finished deciding. I also reserve the right to change any book on my list as I go - if I find a better one :)

    Biography/Autobiography
    1. Measure of a Man. Sidney Poitier
    2. Animal, Vegetable, Miracle. Barbara Kingsolver
    3. A Long Way Gone. Ishmael Beah
    4. Spycatcher. Peter Wright
    5. Middlesex. Jeffrey Eugenides
    6. Infidel. Ayaan hirsi Ali
    7. Glass Castle.
    8. Fish:

    Children's
    1. Invention of Hugo Cabret. Brian Selznick
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    Banned or "challenged" books
    1. Go Ask Alice
    2. The Lorax.
    3. Lady Chatterly's Lover.
    4. The Well of Lonliness
    5. Steal This Book. Abbie Hofmann
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    Friday, January 4, 2008

    Friday Fill in

    1. This year, I'd like to make loads of home and yard improvements (PRUNE!)2. Travel (and pruning) is what I daydream about most.
    3. My hair is a smooge too long.
    4. I would like to have more access to Mexican food in my life.
    5. I love to have lots of birds and flowers around the house.
    6. My boy makes me smile.
    7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to going to bed early, tomorrow my plans include working - unfortunately and Sunday, I want to sleep in but I have to work again!

    Thursday, January 3, 2008

    2007 Year In Review

    Hi, folks!I have never done a year in review post, but as I have been looking around at other blogs I have seen a variety of them. I like the idea of doing a year in review and I have even considered doing one before now, but I have to say that I haven't found one I really liked (to copy) and I didn't like the idea of just going month by month and writing what happened in each.
    So here is a "survey" I found on http://tiffanyaller.blogspot.com/ and I have copied it to fill in myself - I did adapt some of the questions to be a bit more relevant to me.

    Here you go.
    1. What did you do in 2007 that you'd never done before?
    We bought a house this year. I have never done it before, but I highly recommend it - in spite of the mortgage!
    2. Did you keep your New Year's resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
    I'm not a huge fan of the new year resolution thing as it seems to be a let down for me. I did decide with Shel tonight to sign up for this 888 reading thing and I had already decided to read the Pulitzer Prize winners, so I am not sure if that counts for a New Years resolution. I read anyway and it seems to me that saying reading is my resolution would be akin to saying "this year I resolve to breathe."
    3. Did anyone close to you give birth?
    No-one close to me gave birth, but I don't frequent maternity wards. Damien's mother gave birth, she's the only one I know of. Shoot - I better say my Cousin david had a baby. I don't know if any other cousins had kids, but I don't think so.
    4. Did anyone close to you die?
    My nan passed away this year. I would say that she is the closest person to me ever to die. I miss her dreadfully and think of her often.
    5. What countries did you visit?
    I didn't visit any countries this year because #1 I didn't have a passport and #2 Shel couldn't leave the country until late this summer. I DID go to the US border, but I got out on the Canadian side and waited while my brother drove across, did a U-turn and cam back and picked me up, bringing Shel with him and officially "LANDING" her as a resident. YAHOOOO!
    6. What would you like to have in 2008 that you lacked in 2007?
    Mexican food - this relates to #5 and my inability to leave the country in 2007.
    7. What date from 2007 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
    Date... Hmn. I'm not one to really remember dates apparently since nothing is coming to my mind. Probably moving into our new house at the end of September - was it October? LOL
    8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
    I think "our" biggest achievement was getting the immigration done for Shel. We still have some things to wrap up but it has been a LONG and arduous process and we are HAP HAP HAPPY it is over.
    9. What was your biggest failure? I neglected my family for work.
    10. Did you suffer illness or injury? I've had sinus infection, migraines etc. Shel was REALLY sick in 2007. I have had knee problems and lumpage, but that's all.
    11. What was the best thing you bought?
    I won't say "the house" because even thought it was probably overall the single best purchase, what I was most PROUD of buying and had a lot of fun buying were the presents for Shel's birthday. 50 presents for her 50th birthday.
    12. Whose behaviour merited celebration?
    We have celebrated the behavior of M as he has grown and developed this year. We also celebrated with Sierra, one of our foster kids who brought much joy and lots of laughter into our home.
    13. Whose behaviour made you appalled and depressed?
    I think politicians in general have appalled and depressed me. I think GW should be locked away for life at Guantanamo Bay for War crimes, and his cell mate should be our esteemed Canadian Prime Minister.
    14. Where did most of your money go ? After paying outrageous prices at the gas pump thanks to George and company... Here is a story for you. We were in Costco and this lady came to try and sell us this advanced membership thing. I said I wasnt interested only five bazillion times and she kept saying "why?" "why?" I made some comment about how we didn't spend enough thre to make it worth the money back blah blah schpeel she was giving and she asked to see my card and pulled up how much money we had spent in the last few months there. ARUGA! My eyes bugged out of my head like I was a cartoon. We spent a LOT of money at Costco!
    15. What did you get really, really, really excited about? Getting back into school, getting good grades.
    16. What song will always remind you of 2007? For as large a part in my life as music plays, I don`t think there`s one song that will remind me of 2007. Everytime I hear the soundtrack to Annie I will think of work this year where we sang songs from Annie everytime this Annie look alike walked by the office.
    17. Compared to this time last year, are you:
    i. happier or sadder? happier
    ii. thinner or fatter? same
    iii. richer or poorer? richer - not in money really but we are paying a mortgage now instead of rent which feels more stable. ( a 30 year morgage thanks)
    18. What do you wish you'd done more of? probably travelling, hanging in the mountains, spending time with Zuva. I feel like I am neglecting her. I think I would also like to sleep more.
    19. What do you wish you'd done less of? work. I work too much and never take good vacations. I always feel I have to stop in at work, or read my work e-mail or call someone about work. This holiday I had an AWESOME Christmas with my family and it reminded me of how much I have missed out on just "being" here.
    20. How will you be spending Christmas? I spent Chrismas with my family, not on call and just hanging out in our new place. M and I laughed EVERY day of the vacation.
    21. Craziest Dream of the year? I am usually better at remembering my dreams and I can't think of one right now. I have dreamt of people from my past a few times - most recently last night when I dreamt I was in a play and trying to memorize lines.
    22. Did you fall in love in 2007? I fell in love with M over and over and over - especially when he laughs.
    23. Best trip of the year? The quickest trip was to Banff, but we saw good friends and ate good food and the mountains make me happy. It was totally worth it (but I didn't think so as we were driving home with a screaming baby!) Driving to the border and back was a stressful trip but one we have waited for for a LONG time and totally worth it.
    24. What was your favorite TV program? Life
    25. Do you hate anyone now that you didn't hate this time last year? I hate all the same people. LOL. I don't think I HATE as a general rule. There are a few people who make it to that list, but no-one new this year.
    26. What was the best book you read? Sheesh, that's a hard one. I read some crappy books this year. I would have to say "Prep" by Curtis Sittenfeld was up there in the top group.
    27. What was your greatest musical discovery? I don`t think I `discovered`anything muscally. I listen to a few newer bands and I like Headly.
    28. What did you want and get? pruning tools and an MP3 player
    29. What did you want and not get? more Asterix comics? I got a lot of everything I wanted except probably "big ticket" items like quads, snowmobiles, ride on mowers etc.
    30. What was your favorite film of this year? An old movie which I saw for the first time this year - "Bound" and probably Bourne Supremacy.
    31. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you? On my birthday I was 1 year older than last year.
    32.What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying? um.... I don`t have an answer to this question. I think maybe if Shel had felt better and would not have been so sick the year would have been more satisfying for us.
    33. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2007? I am likely to be arrested by the fashion police but they couldn't find my house. Today I wore socks that matched my shirt and my co-workers were stunned. I agree it took me all of my vacation to come up with my ensemble.
    34. What kept you sane in 2007? I had a pretty sane year. Maybe it was the valium. ha ha.
    35. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most? P!nk. or Neve. or Sandra. Or Angelina..
    36. What political issue stirred you the most? The alleged war on terror
    37. Who did you miss? Nana and Sierra after she left our home.
    38. Who was the best new person you met? If I could pick only one I would have to pick two. Doug and Kirsten in my new class.
    39. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2007: well. I learned that if you don`t learn your lesson the first time it will come again so you get another shot at it. It`s better to learn it first time around - especially if it is a difficult or annoying lesson - or you get the bugger again and again.
    40. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year: I`m not ready to make nice, I`m not ready to back down. I'm mad as hell and I don't have time to go round and round and round.
    41. Did you get a tattoo this year? Why yes, yes I did thanks for asking. Man I love tattoos. I have a new tattoo on the back of my right leg. It is a celtic design of a thistle in purple, green and blue.
    42. Biggest challenge of the year? At work the biggest challenge was staffing turnovers in my departments which were horrendous but we broke on through to the other side. At home the biggest challenge was TWO house moves in less than ten months.
    43. Who was the best "old" friend you met? This was the year of facebook for me so I was happy to become "reaquainted" with many friends from my past. Probably the best for me were a boy from junior high in Nova Scotia and a girl from high school in Saskatoon.